{"id":14884,"date":"2024-08-12T20:22:17","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T18:22:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/?page_id=14884"},"modified":"2026-03-25T00:44:36","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T23:44:36","slug":"2004-eine-hochzeit","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/2004-eine-hochzeit\/","title":{"rendered":"2004 Eine Hochzeit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"et_pb_section_0 et_pb_section et_section_regular et_block_section\"><div class=\"et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_0 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_menu_0 et_pb_menu et_pb_menu--without-logo et_pb_menu--style-left_aligned et_dropdown_animation_fade et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_text_align_right-tablet et_pb_text_align_right-phone et_pb_module et_flex_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_menu_inner_container et_flex_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_menu__wrap\"><div 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href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/2004-mein-geburtstag\/\">2004 Mein Geburtstag<\/a><\/li>\n\t<li id=\"menu-item-14954\" class=\"et_pb_menu_page_id-14924 menu-item menu-item-type-post_type menu-item-object-page menu-item-14954\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/2004-mein-sonnenbrand\/\">2004 Mein Sonnenbrand<\/a><\/li>\n\t<li id=\"menu-item-14950\" class=\"et_pb_menu_page_id-14926 menu-item menu-item-type-post_type menu-item-object-page menu-item-14950\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/2004-abschied\/\">2004 Abschied<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><\/nav><\/div><div class=\"et_mobile_nav_menu\"><div class=\"mobile_nav closed\"><span class=\"mobile_menu_bar\"><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_section_1 et_pb_section et_section_regular et_block_section\"><div class=\"et_pb_row_1 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_1 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_0 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><h1>Eh und Ingo - eine Hochzeit in Korat<\/h1>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_row_2 et_pb_row et_pb_row_3-4_1-4 et_block_row et_block_row_3-4_1-4\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_2 et_pb_column et_pb_column_3_4 et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_1 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p>Der Wecker hat versagt oder wir haben ihn \u00fcberh\u00f6rt, und so stehen wir erst um 5.30 Uhr auf. Um 6.15 Uhr sind wir dann aber bereits im Brauthaus, wo wir gleichzeitig mit den M\u00f6nchen eintreffen.<\/p>\n<p>Im Zeitraffer die Zeremonie:<\/p>\n<p>In Anwesenheit von 9 M\u00f6nchen wird die die buddhistische Feier abgehalten. Sie ist f\u00fcr das Brautpaar recht anstrengend, m\u00fcssen sie doch knieend und sitzend alles \u00fcber sich ergehen lassen, er im feinen Zwirn, sie im s\u00fcssen thail\u00e4ndischen Kleid. Der relativ grosse Raum ist zum Bersten gef\u00fcllt und wird dann auch noch reichlich mit den Esst\u00f6pfen f\u00fcr die M\u00f6nche zugedeckt. Diese verlassen nach ihrer Mahlzeit das Haus, denn ihren Teil zum Gelingen haben sie beigetragen.<\/p>\n<p>Es findet f\u00fcr den Br\u00e4utigam ein symbolischer Umzug statt, der den Weg des Mannes zur Braut symbolisiert. Wegen der einsetzenden Hitze f\u00fchrt der Umzug tats\u00e4chlich nur kurz ums Viertel und verursacht einen erheblichen Verkehrsstau auf der Hauptstrasse. Doch darauf nimmt man einfach keine R\u00fccksicht, und die Verkehrsteilnehmer lassen auch keine Ungeduld erkennen, sind sie doch solches gewohnt.<\/p>\n<p>Kurz vor dem Haus der Brauteltern angekommen, muss sich der Br\u00e4utigam den Weg zum Haus freikaufen, was ihm sichtlich schwerf\u00e4llt. Freunde haben allerdings vorgesorgt und versorgen ihn mit vorgefertigten Briefumschl\u00e4gen, worin nicht zu erkennende, aber sicher erhebliche, Geldbetr\u00e4ge stecken.<\/p>\n<p>Beim Eintritt in das Haus erfolgt die traditionelle Fusswaschung durch die Braut. Also alleine deswegen w\u00fcrde ich schon nochmal heiraten, aber wer will mich denn noch in dem Alter?? Meine liebe All denkt nicht im Traum dran, mir die F\u00fcsse zu waschen, eher schon mal den Kopf.<br \/>\nEs folgt die Zeremonie des Sai Sin, d.h. dem Brautpaar werden durch \u00e4ltere Familienmitglieder und Nachbarn die sicher allen bekannten Schn\u00fcre um die Handgelenke gebunden. Daran schliesst sich die Zeremonie des H\u00e4ndewaschens durch die G\u00e4ste an.<\/p>\n<p>Die \u00dcbergabe des Brautgeldes (ich gestehe: erstmals sehe ich 1,2 Millionen Baht in bar auf einem Haufen) ist der letzte zum eigentlichen Heiraten geh\u00f6rende Teil der Hochzeit. Wie es sich geh\u00f6rt, drei Stunden sind n\u00e4mlich bereits um, folgt ein Mittagessen f\u00fcr die G\u00e4ste auf der Soi vor dem Haus, die zu diesem Zwecke einfach durch ein Zelt, Tische und St\u00fchle abgesperrt ist.<\/p>\n<p>Abends dann die Feier im Hotel mit ca 500 geladenen G\u00e4sten. Der jetzt auch nach thail\u00e4ndischem Brauch anerkannte Ehemann (eigentlich sind die beiden ja schon seit drei Jahren nach deutschem Recht verheiratet) hat mit seiner Frau zusammen ein sch\u00f6nes Liebeslied erlernt, was die beiden jetzt vortragen. Ergreifend. Gegen 21 Uhr wird das Brautpaar ins Zimmer gen\u00f6tigt, und m\u00f6glichst viele wollen sehen, wie das Brautpaar gebettet wird.<\/p>\n<p>Kommentar der Brautmutter: nun macht uns mal zwei Enkelkinder, Zeit genug habt ihr ja schon gehabt.<\/p>\n<p>Ich habe schon so einige Hochzeiten miterlebt, allerdings noch keine in diesem Rahmen. Anmerken darf ich allerdings, dass weder die Brauteltern noch der jetzt Ehemann zu den Reichen dieser Welt geh\u00f6ren. Aber dar\u00fcber mache ich mir auch jetzt keine Gedanken.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_column_3 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_0 et_pb_image et_pb_image_sticky et_pb_has_overlay et_pb_module et_block_module\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-1.jpg\" class=\"et_pb_lightbox_image\"><span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-1.jpg\" width=\"980\" height=\"735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-1.jpg 980w, https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-1-480x360.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 980px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-15031\" \/><span class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\" data-icon=\"T\"><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_text_2 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><pre style=\"text-align: center;\">Die M\u00f6nche kommen<\/pre>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_image_1 et_pb_image et_pb_image_sticky et_pb_has_overlay et_pb_module et_block_module\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-2.jpg\" class=\"et_pb_lightbox_image\"><span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-2.jpg\" width=\"980\" height=\"735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-2.jpg 980w, https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-2-480x360.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 980px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-15032\" \/><span class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\" data-icon=\"T\"><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_text_3 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><pre style=\"text-align: center;\">Speisung der M\u00f6nche<\/pre>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_image_2 et_pb_image et_pb_image_sticky et_pb_has_overlay et_pb_module et_block_module\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-3.jpg\" class=\"et_pb_lightbox_image\"><span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-3.jpg\" width=\"980\" height=\"735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-3.jpg 980w, https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-3-480x360.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 980px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-15033\" \/><span class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\" data-icon=\"T\"><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_text_4 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><pre style=\"text-align: center;\">Rituelles H\u00e4ndewaschen<\/pre>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_image_3 et_pb_image et_pb_image_sticky et_pb_has_overlay et_pb_module et_block_module\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-4.jpg\" class=\"et_pb_lightbox_image\"><span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-4.jpg\" width=\"980\" height=\"735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-4.jpg 980w, https:\/\/kurt-singer.com\/thailand\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/7\/2024\/08\/2004-Hochzeit-4-480x360.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 980px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-15034\" \/><span class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\" data-icon=\"T\"><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_text_5 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><pre style=\"text-align: center;\">Abendliche Feier im 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